Showing posts with label Mother. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother. Show all posts

Saturday, January 9, 2016

Because she showed me how to see good in people

Judy Stanton
        My childhood was unstable because my mother was unstable.  I was moved back and forth between my maternal grandparents' and my mother's as my mother repeated unsuccessful attempts at setting up a home.  I learned to mistrust adults.  I put my trust in animals.  This is actually a common thing for veterinarians.  Many of the pre-veterinary students that I have come across barely declare that they like animals better than people. However, I have learned that you must learn to communicate with people in order to be a good veterinarian.  Good communications with people are a whole lot easier when you actually like people.   Judy Stanton, my stepmother, helped me to see the good in other people and showed me that you could trust some people.  This has made a tremendous difference in my life and my career as a veterinarian.   
Because my own mother wasn't someone you could aspire to emulate, I am lucky to have had many other women who have served as role models.  I am grateful that Judy Stanton was one of those women.

Sunday, January 3, 2016

Mothers and Daughters

     My daughter and I are living in the sweet spot in time.  The time with an adult child and before grandchildren.  I enjoy having common interests and spending time with my daughter.  I learn from her and I strive to model a successful life philosophy for her.   

     I look around and see many other strong mother and daughter relationships today. It inspires me since I didn't have this in my own life growing up.  I did have many women role models and I'll tell you more about them later on this year.

Diane Jan. 3, 2016